If you had a magic wand, what would your life look like?
What stops YOU from having the life you want?
Ask yourself:
♦ Do you want to be a master of your fate or victim of your circumstances?
♦ What will be different if you take the responsibility for your life, if you have power to make choices and changes in every area of your life?
Imagine yourself to be in control of your finances, relationships and your wellbeing.
Complete the table to get clarity about what is going on in your life and what changes you would like to make. What are you committed to do within the next 30 days to bring your life to the next level? Questions are only for guidance purposes you can write anything you find useful for yourself.
CONTEST ENTRY CODE: 272727
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Please feel free to download a Word version of the table
| WEALTH | |||
| Ideal situation Amount of money that would make you feel comfortable and secure; Anything you want to have for money (possessions, experiences etc) make a list | Current situation Your current money situation; For instance, struggling paying bills, You can easily pay monthly bills but have no savings for unforeseen expenses; Comfortable level of income etc | What do you want to change? What do you want to change? Include also your attitude towards money | What changes are you going to make within next 30 days List of actions for the next 30 days |
| RELATIONSHIPS | |||
| Ideal situation What is your relationship status in ideal version? (single, new relationships, maintaining current ones) What kind of relationships would you like to have with people around you – partner/ parents/ relatives/ friends/ colleagues?
| Current situation What is the current situation in this area? How do you feel about it? | What do you want to change?
| What changes are you going to make within next 30 days List of actions for the next 30 days |
| LIVING ENVIRONMENT | |||
| Ideal situation What kind of living conditions would be ideal for you? Think what you really want rather what you can get. Size of the living space, ownership, location etc. | Current situation What are your current living conditions? | What do you want to change?
| What changes are you going to make within next 30 days For instance, in ideal version I want to own a house near the park, though within next 30 days I’m going to make cosier the house which I am currently renting. |
| HEALTH/ WELLBEING | |||
| Ideal situation How do you want to feel? Your ideal weight/ energy level etc. | Current situation How do you evaluate your health conditions? Your fitness/ energy level. | What do you want to change?
| What changes are you going to make within next 30 days? List of actions for the next 30 days |
| JOBS/ CAREER | |||
| Ideal situation Your dream career, what would you love to do even if you don’t get paid for it | Current situation Do you like your job? Even if you are not currently working, do you enjoy it? Do you struggle every Monday to get yourself into work? | What do you want to change? | What changes are you going to make within next 30 days? List of actions for the next 30 days |
When you are ready to make a breakthrough in your life, you are welcome to contact me for informal chat on +44(0)777 369 2762 or email to motivation@ingadeksne.co.uk
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May 18, 2011 at 2:03 pm
This looks great. A really useful prompt for reflection. I would look at trying to display it more dynamically. Perhaps a tool like http://www.glogster.com/
May 22, 2011 at 9:42 am
I find it good. The questions will make one thinking and lead to action. Good coach activities.
I too want to get trained for my life change.
June 13, 2011 at 1:48 pm
Very nice, looks like something that you can leave with clients to work on and develop. An ongoing tool for sessions.
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July 2, 2011 at 4:07 pm
Hi Inga, loved this article, especially the often overlooked action-steps aspect of it.
July 3, 2011 at 6:42 am
Great advice Inga. I love that you provided those steps to take to figure things out.
July 4, 2011 at 10:22 pm
Inga, Hi, I love the graphic DREAMS painted in the road in yellow with the arrow pointing down the right path through the forest of trees. “You don’t need the magic wand to create your dream life. All you need is commitment to make necessary changes.” When people answer you question and write them down as written goals and read them daily they will live the LifeStyle of their dreams. Excellent!
July 6, 2011 at 8:34 pm
I like your chart. We do, indeed, have the power to direct our lives and the ability to choose to manifest our dreams!